Every
Parents Nightmare
From ITV (Friday, January 28, 2005)
Stephanie Lawrence faced every parent's nightmare when she was
falsely accused of assaulting her children by social services.
As a result her children were put on the 'at risk' register and
what followed was, in Stephanie's words, "Three years of
hell."
Stephanie tells how one social services blunder lost her business
and left her and four of her children stigmatised and ostracised
by the whole of their community. Stephanie Lawrence, from Spittal,
Pembrokeshire, and her four children has been put through three
years of hell. The family were shunned by neighbours and Stephanie's
bridal-wear shop was forced to close after Pembrokeshire social
workers wrongly placed her children on an at-risk register for
almost fifteen months. "We have been ostracised by our community
to the point where my son was not even invited to his best friend's
birthday party. Parents stopped talking to me. My children were
not invited to their friends' homes. I have lost my business,
and my children have suffered distress and humiliation. The children
felt second class."
Stephanie's ordeal began in 2000..... Matters came to a head in
early 2002, when Stephanie was contacted by Social Services. Stephanie
met with Social Services and explained that under no circumstances
had she ever harmed the children, although, she honestly said:
"Failing everything else I did what my grandmother used to
do, and threatened the children with a wooden spoon. But I never
actually hit them and never would."
....But thanks to Stephanie's complaints and persistence, the
council eventually set up an independent review of her case. What
the Ombudsman report concluded... The damning official report
has vindicated Ms Lawrence and slated the council which took action
against her. The report concluded that the children should never
have been on the at risk register - and their names were removed
in June 2003, after almost fifteen months. The Ombudsman added
that the council's refusal to take the children off the register
was based 'not on any perception of real risk to the children,'
but on their mother's 'alleged failure to co-operate' with the
Social Services. He said interviews with Stephanie and her children
were conducted in a 'ham-fisted' manner. The Ombudsman report
has found Pembrokeshire social services guilty of repeated, prolonged
and serious maladministration, causing injustice to both mother
and children. The damning report said, 'To have entered the shop
and accused her in front of her daughter, and to have insisted
on picking the children up from school where their teachers, their
friends and their friends' mothers would be witness to the event,
was grossly insensitive and unnecessarily indiscreet.' He concluded,
'Officers carried out a clumsy and insensitive investigation which
unjustifiably resulted in an initial child protection conference.
That conference was procedurally flawed and took an unreasonable
decision to place the children on the register.' What the Ombudsman
report recommended.... The Ombudsman recommended the authority
pay Stephanie £5,000 compensation after recognising she
had 'suffered the stigma of being identified as a potential child
abuser'.
He recommended that Pembrokeshire County Council should apologise
to Stephanie, her three sons and her daughter, all of whom have
'suffered distress, embarrassment and humiliation' and make a
"clear acknowledgement" that they should not have been
placed on the register. No apologies have yet been received. What
Social services have said...... Pembrokeshire County Council leader
John Davies said he accepted the Ombudsman's report but with reservations.
He said, 'It must be remembered that the county council's responsibility
in cases such as this, is always to the children. It appears that
one of the principle mistakes in this matter has been one of over-caution.
Many changes have already been made. The Ombudsman's report recommends
that a formal review should be carried out with external assistance,
and the county council will be doing this.' Stephanie has called
for the resignation of the authority's director of Social Services
following the local government Ombudsman's report which found
'repeated, prolonged and serious maladministration', in the handling
of the case. Mr Davies said a fresh apology would be issued to
Stephanie but saw no justification for the resignation of the
director of Social Services, Jon Skone. 'The important thing is
to learn any lessons from the Ombudsman's report and to deal with
the issues which arise in it.'...