Molly Campbell - kidnapped,
abducted or something more complicated?
There is always more than one side to any story, and the case
of the 12-year-old taken from the Western Isles is no different.
What has been put about by the media
has been the mother's tale. I've now managed to piece
together some more information from the father's side.
Friends close to the family are angry at the way this has been
portrayed as a case of abduction or kidnap
.
Even Louise's own emotional statement today gave a sense of this
not being the case:
"I would like to say to Molly that we miss her so much and
we beg her to come home to us.
"She has to know she is not in any trouble and we are not
angry, we just want her home."
She seems to be saying that the girl herself
chose to go. Reports indicate that Molly met her father
the day before she actually disappeared, but kept this secret
from her mother.
Molly Campbell was born Misbah Iram Ahmed Rana. She is one of
four children from the marriage of Sajed Ahmed Rana and Louise
Campbell - the others being Omar, Tahmina and Adam.
Louise converted to Islam and was known as Sheza during her marriage
to Sajed. He was a committed follower of Tablighi Jamaat, she
was also practising and wore the niqab.
Ultimately the marriage broke down.
At the time of divorce, it's said Louise was suffering from various
personal problems. She was also living with a boyfriend, and it
was agreed that the children should live with their father Sajed.
They lived for a while in Pakistan. Upon return to the UK, out
of his own free will, Sajed said the children should visit their
mother. The older three, being over 16, returned to him. Misbah/Molly
however did not as court action followed for Louise to take custody
of her.
Sajed has not seen her since, despite serious attempts to locate
his daughter. This is what has led to the current situation.
This isn't a straightforward case of clashing cultures. It fits
more neatly into the Fathers4Justice campaign.
Initially I thought that none of this takes us away from what
needs to happen though. There is due process in this country.
It is not acceptable that if the result does not agree with your
own desires, that there is another option of taking the situation
abroad.
However, what if due process in Pakistan leads to Sajed being
declared Molly's legal guardian there? What you have then is two
legal systems saying two competing things.
Facts
on the ground would dictate that Molly stays in Pakistan. Then
there is the complication that I understand Molly is also a Pakistani
national. No due process could make Pakistan hand over one of
their nationals. Even the British embassy would not intervene
in a case of dual nationality.
That is unless there was an issue of forced marriage. The Daily
Record's claims from Louise's mother on this are well wide of
the mark. I'm told she has always harboured animosity towards
Sajed, and refused to speak to Louise all the years she had converted
to Islam.
'Forced marriage' seems to be
an easy cheap shot to make.
However, also consider the situation. Molly/Misbah has three older
full brothers and sisters. None of them seem to be with their
mother. The sister, Tahmina, actually helped in the taking of
Misbah/Molly away from the Western Isles.
Would she is all conscience put her 12-year-old
sister in the situation of getting a forced marriage to a 25-year-old?
I also can't see a fully grown man going for that kind of thing.
I know Pakistan has been subject of all kinds of bad stuff lately,
but this is pushing it.
The BBC also clearly still need to learn the difference between
'arranged' and a 'forced' marriage. The former is a legitimate
choice of both man and woman, the latter is wholly unacceptable.