Our experiences with the authorities.
I can get so anger I could go on for ever but here is a brief
summary of our ordeals
We have been going with the Social Works for over 12 years before
we had any problems with them because both the children we had
were fostered and adopted. Our trouble started when the youngest
girl told a respite carer that her Daddy had hurt her boobies
which is something he as never denied he did when he was giving
her a cuddle. We were away on holiday at that time and by the
time we came home, the Social Workers had us tried and convicted
Neither of the girls were allowed back we had to fight to see
them and then only with supervision we were never allowed to discuss
any thing with the youngest child if we did then we wouldn’t
be allowed to see her again. (There is something I must explain
here both girls are mentally handicap the oldest girl cannot speak)
The Police were involved but we were never charged with any crime
there was no evidence. They carried out a medical without me being
there even after I had told them that Wanted to be there. We were
made to feel right from the start that we were perverts and should
not be allowed near children at any time. One year after the allegation
we were told that the youngest child never wanted to see us again
the older girl was taken away and put in a home she was 27 years
old and our home was the home she had ever had. We are now 9 years
on the oldest girl we have never see and the youngest we happen
to bump into 2 years ago. We found out then that she had wanted
to see us but the Social Worker told her it would be better if
she didn’t. We are still fighting to see her but are still
refused any contact as soon as we asked for contact they got a
Guardianship order granted. We have often wondered why they don’t
want us to see her. My son has been seeing her for past 5 years
but only on the condition that does not talk about us or ask her
any question about the case.