Desparate Fathers
Dying For Justice!
I, LM (from ---, Essex, UK), HAVE BEEN FORCED ON HUNGER STRIKE
(from 16/12/2000) due to the prejudicial, immoral and indecent
FAMILY LAW system which is:
ABUSING BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS OF FATHERS AND CHILDREN
Article 8 (1) and (2)
Article 14 - discrimination
Article 1 of Protocol No. 1
Article 7
Article 2 of Protocol No. 1
Article 13
TOTALLY IGNORING PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME WHICH IS A FORM
OF MENTAL ABUSE
TURNING A BLIND EYE TO PERJURY
There are several easily proven witnessed counts of perjury on
my ex-partners part.
TOTALLY DISREGARDING THE EVIDENCE
My evidence was refused in court by judge Medawar.
TREATING FATHERS WORSE THAN CRIMINALS
Even murderers and rapist get more opportunity to be heard and
be dealt with more decorum.
ACTING UPON FALSE, UNSUPPORTED ALLEGATIONS
She accused me of threat to kill, racism, road rage, harassment
(to herself and her family), etc.
NOT ENFORCING "CONTACT ORDERS"
Out of three contacts I have only seen both boys together on
one occasion.
BLATANTLY DISCRIMINATORY AGAINST FATHERS
Even with all my evidence that clearly shows that she has constant
affairs and uses children as a cover, steals from them, mentally
abuses them (extreme PAS), she gets residence.
DOING EXACTLY OPPOSITE TO "FORTHE BEST INTEREST OF CHILDREN"
Ignoring PAS, depriving children of the contact with their father
and by making the decisions with total disregard for the true
state of the affairs.
PREVENTING THE TRUTH FROM BEING KNOWN (DISCLOSURE BEING A CONTEMPT
OF COURT) DUE TO ALL OF THE ABOVE AND TO BEING RUINED FINANCIALLY,
I AM FORCED TO TAKE THE ONLY ACTION LEFT AVAILABLE TO ME TO STOP
MY CHILDREN’S AND MY OWN LIVES BEING DESTROYED BY IMMORAL
AND PERVERSE JUSTICE SYSTEM.
I SHALL COME OFF THE HUNGER STRIKE IMMEDIATELY IF THERE IS AN
AGREEMENT THAT:
my evidence will be heard properly
the judgement will be made according to the written laws
I AM ALLOWED FAIR AND REASONABLE, UNSUPERVISED CONTACT WITH MY
CHILDREN WHILE PURSUING THE RESIDENCE APPLICATION ( I HAVE NEVER
DONE ANYTHING TO HARM MY CHILDREN AND FIND IT EXTREMELY DAMAGING
AND HUMILIATING FOR THEM AND MYSELF TO BE TREATED AS A CRIMINAL
Dying to See His Children!
I, LM (from ---, Essex, UK), HAVE BEEN FORCED ON HUNGER STRIKE
(from 16/12/2000) due to the prejudicial, immoral and indecent
FAMILY LAW system which is:
ABUSING BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS OF FATHERS AND CHILDREN
1. Article 6 (1) -" a fair and public hearing within a reasonable
time", I certainly did not get a fair hearing and my children
apparently have no right to say anything in these proceedings.
Also, my partner receives legal aid and I do not, therefore, there
is no equality of arms - Ofner & Hopfinger v. Austria, Yearbook
1963, 693: "It is beyond doubt that, in any case, the wider
and more general provisions for a fair trial contained in paragraph
1 of Article 6 embodies the notion of equality of arms".
2. Article 8 (1) and (2) - my correspondence and my children’s
are severely restricted, so are my children’s rights in
respect for their private and family life and home.
3. Article 14 - discrimination - it seems that my treatment is
affected by my name accent and sex, the judge has made his decision
without even seeing me and ignored me when I spoke.
4. Article 1 of Protocol No. 1 - "everynatural or legal
person is entitled to the peaceful enjoyment of his posses-sions…"-
I am not apparently, I must give my possessions to my ex instead
even though I’ve got positive proof of ownership.
5. Again as above - I am not allowed to sell my cars, one of
which is faulty and the other too expensive for me to run, therefore
I can not enjoy my property and I am incurring an awful lot of
extra expense.
6. As above - I am left with two options:
a) To appeal - very costly - damaging to my children’s
future because I shall not be able to provide adequately for my
children or,
b) Accepting the status quo therefore accepting the damage done
to my children and violation of Article 8(1) respect for family
life or I am forced into a situation which involves a violation
of Article 1 of Protocol (No, 1).
7. Article 7 - due to various so far unchecked allegations against
me, the court proceedings are going to continue until I get proper
satisfaction in the law, therefore exhausting my assets to the
point where my children’s future is going to suffer. They
have had no opportunity to influence their rights and freedoms
and enjoy those assets.
8. Article 2 of Protocol No. 1 - draining my resources through
the apparently meaningless court procedures is going to affect
my children’s future education, my plans for their immediate
future have probably already been destroyed.
9. Article 13 - due to the judges refusal to examine the available
evidence my rights have been denied and this will also affect
my children by means of the damage caused by the outcome.
TOTALLY IGNORING PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME WHICH IS A FORM
OF MENTAL ABUSE
Even though the Parental Alienation Syndrome is known form of
mental abuse, our courts are not acting upon the information therefore
further damaging our children
TURNING A BLIND EYE TO PERJURY
There are several easily proven witnessed counts of perjury on
my ex-partners part.
TOTALLY DISREGARDING THE EVIDENCE
My evidence was refused in court by judge Medawar, under state-ment
"I do not want to dwell on the past, I want to set framework
for the future (Impossible to "do the best for the children"
without knowing the history of the relationship).
TREATING FATHERS WORSE THAN CRIMINALS
Even murderers and rapist get more opportunity to be heard and
be dealt with more decorum.
ACTING UPON FALSE, UNSUPPORTED ALLEGATIONS
To get the non-molestation order she accused me of racism, road
rage, harassment (to herself and her family), etc., getting the
order with Powers of Arrest attached without having to produce
any supporting evidence to her claims.
Since the "split" there were also numerous other false
allegations including the harassment, threat to kill, hiding guns
under the floorboards, trying to run them over (her and her current
lover) upon which the police and courts acted immediately totally
disregarding my evidence/witnesses.
NOT ENFORCING "CONTACTORDERS"
Out of three contacts I was given under the court order, I have
only seen both boys together on one occasion, judge said that
he couldn’t do anything about it.
BLATANTLY DISCRIMINATORY AGAINST FATHERS
Even with all my evidence that clearly shows that she has constant
affairs and uses children as a cover, steals from them, mentally
abuses them (extreme PAS), she gets residence. I have looked after
my children almost every evening while she was out with her boyfriends
and suddenly I am not fit to see my son on his birthday, see them
over Christmas or any other time unsupervised.
DOING EXACTLY OPPOSITE TO "FOR THE BEST INTEREST OF CHILDREN"
Ignoring PAS, depriving children of the contact with their father
and by making the decisions with total disregard for the true
state of the affairs, court is probably causing untold damage
to the children and probably ruining the rest of their lives.
Even if things were to be put right instantly, how much damage
has already been caused by the stupidity of our legal system and
what effect will it have on well-being of my children?
PREVENTING THE TRUTH FROM BEING KNOWN (DISCLOSURE BEING A CONTEMPT
OF COURT)
Due to the secrecy that our courts practise in their proceedings
and a lack of any records of their performance (to maintain the
secrecy) disclosing the information is contempt of court with
possible consequences being imprisonment.
DUE TO ALL OF THE ABOVE AND TO BEING RUINED FINANCIALLY, I AM
FORCED TO TAKE THE ONLY ACTION LEFT AVAILABLE TO ME TO STOP MY
CHILDREN’S AND MY OWN LIVES BEING DESTROYED BY IMMORAL AND
PERVERSE JUSTICE SYSTEM.
SHALL COME OF THE HUNGER STRIKE IMMEDIATELY IF THERE IS AN AGREEMENT
THAT:
my evidence will be heard properly
the judgement will be made according to the written laws
I AM ALLOWED FAIR AND REASONABLE, UNSUPERVISED CONTACT WITH MY
CHILDREN WHILE PURSU-ING THE RESIDENCE APPLICATION ( I HAVE NEVER
DONE ANYTHING TO HARM MY CHILDREN AND FIND IT EXTREMELY DAMAGING
AND HUMILIATING FOR THEM AND MYSELF TO BE TREATED AS A CRIMINAL
Here's the gagging order from HHJ Tyrer (sitting as a High Court
Judge) :
IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUSTICE FAMILY DIVISION
BETWEEN HSF And LM ORDER CASE NO: ---
Applicant Respondent Upon hearing Counsel for the Applicant on
an ex parte application before HHJ Tyrer (sitting as a High Court
Judge) on the 9'" January 2001
And Upon Counsel for the Applicant undertaking to have sworn the
Applicant's application today, IT IS ORDERED THAT:
An injunction is hereby granted restraining until further order,
any person including the Respondent, LM, (whether by himself or
by his servants or agents or otherwise or in the case of a company
whether by its directors or officers, servants or agents or otherwise
howsoever) from: a. Publishing in any book, magazine or newspaper,
or broadcasting in any sound or television broadcast, or by means
of any cable or satellite programme service, or web site or internet
site, or poster or othenvise:
i. The name and address of the children namely: MM (DOB 28.4.90)
and SM (DOB 18.12.93) See schedule set out below.
ii. Any school or recreational institution at which the children
are attending in particular ---, ---, Essex.
iii. The above mentioned Applicant and/or Respondent parents of
the said children being the persons whose names and addresses
are set out in the schedule hereto. b. Any picture being or including
a picture of either (i) the child or (ii) either of the parents.
c. from publishing, re-publishing or disseminating to any other
person or body in whole or part the information contained in an
article printed by the said newspaper on Thursday 28th December
2000 concerning the said parents or children. d. Soliciting any
information relating to the child from: i. The child ii. From
the staff or the pupils of the school or students of the recreational
or educational institution that the children attend. iii. From
the Petitioner iv. From the Respondent e. notwithstanding the
provisions of s12(2) of the Administration of Justice Act 1960
as amended but without prejudice to paragraph 2 below including
in any publication of the text or the summary of the whole of
this order any of the matters referred to herein. IN EACH CASE
in a manner calculated to lead to the identification: (a) in the
case of the child, of the child either as being the subject of
proceedings before the court, or the child of a parent on hunger
strike (reportedly during the course of FLA 1996 and/or CA 1989
or other private law proceedings,) (b) in the case of any school
or educational or recreational institution, such educational or
recreational institution as being one at which the children attend.
(c) In the case of the Petitioner as being the spouse/former spouse
of the Respondent and as being the parent with whom the children
reside.
PROVIDING THAT NOTHING in this order shall of itself prevent any
person: (i) publishing any particulars of or information relating
to any part of the proceedings before any court other than a court
sitting in private. (ii) soliciting information relating to the
child in the course of or for the purpose of the exercise by the
person soliciting such information of any duty or function authorised
by statute or by any court of competent jurisdiction . Copies
of this order endorsed with a penal notice be served by the Applicant:
a. on such newspapers and sound or television broadcasting or
cable or satellite programme service the Applicant may think fit.
In each facsimile transmission first addressed to the editor of
a newspaper or senior news editor in the case of a broadcasting
or satellite programme service. b. on the Respondent and such
other persons as the Applicant may think fit in each case by personal
service. AND the parties and any person affected by the injunction
in above are to be at liberty to apply with at least 2 days written
notice to the Applicants solicitors. 3. The Official Solicitor
be invited to consider acting on behalf of the children. 4. This
matter do return for further hearing on 16th January 2001 at 10:30am.
(with a time estimate of 1 hour) . 4. Costs reserved.
Take notice that if you neglect to obey this order you may be
held in contempt of court and liable to imprisonment or sequestration
of your assets.
SCHEDULE : The children are: MM (DOB 28.4.90) and SM(DOB 18.12.93)
residing at ---, ---l, Essex, ---
The Applicant is HSF residing at ---, Essex, ---
The Respondent is LM residing at ---, Essex.
________________________________________
Saturday, 27 January 2001, 42nd day.
First of all, thank you to all the people who are continually
offering their support and special thank you to the "team"
who has been working so hard to spread the knowledge of my "diet"
far and wide. And anybody who might be monitoring our e-mails,
phone calls et. with intent to spy on us and try to limit our
achievements, screw you, WE WILL WIN! Because together we are
strong, the truth is on our side. And the most important reason
is, it's for our children.
I was visited by my doctor yesterday, he phoned to ask if he can
"pop in" to see me and was around 5 minutes later with
a shrink. We had a nice chat and they agreed with me on most points
discussed, except the dieting, of course. They do admit however
that I am not mad, not yet anyway, and that my reasons are valid
but, think that I ought to pursue the matter through the "normal"
channels. I think they've changed their mind a little after I
explained about the state of the "normality" in the
family courts. The same shrink as involved last July when I was
accused of hiding a 357 magnum under the floorboards and helped
me to clear the matter, so we thought, but in her latest statement
to the high court she is pulling the same allegation once more.
I, on the other hand, have found out that it is possible to have
somebody forced into psychiatric evaluation without them agreeing,
their doctor can do it, there is hope here to prove that my ex
indeed is not fit to be a mother unless she is prepared to get
some help.
We all know that child/children who grow up without one of the
parents could suffer mentally, my belief is that it could be just
as bad if one of the parents neglects the child/ren. My ex is
a living proof of that. She was mentally and physically abused
and neglected by her parents. Before anybody said that I am being
"hostile" again, as I said before, I am in a possession
of her diary which proves my point. If anybody out there would
like to psycho-analyse it, I would gladly supply a copy.
Anyway, back to the nitty-gritty. My tiredness is getting much
worse, on few occasions, even when I as doing something and trying
to stay awake, I've just "dropped of for few minutes. It
could be due to sleep deprivation of last several months I suppose
but is getting more aggravated. It's lot worse when it happens
while you got a mug of hot coffee in your hands one moment and
"privates" on fire the next. How cold is it out this
days? -50, -60, it sure fills like it. Cannot get warm at all
yet wake up in a cold sweat every morning (unless some sod creeps
in while I'm asleep and pours a bucket of water over me). my arm
and leg muscles are very painful, even just using the keyboard
is a bit of a strain.
Getting a bit thinner too. Now I can go for a cheap x-ray, torch
in front and piece of cardboard behind and presto, there's all
the bones. My weight is currently (as at ten AM today) 8 stone
and 4 pounds, (52 1/2 kilograms (or for our American and Canadian
friends 116 pounds). Loss over last week is 4 pounds, 2 kilograms
(I've already said pounds) and total loss to date is 2 stone and
4 pounds, 15 1/2 kilograms or 32 pounds. Anybody out there with
a bit of helium and a balloon, I'm looking for a cheap transport.
All the weights are to the nearest pound.
Joking aside, I know, I am running out of time so here is the
special announcement that I've mentioned earlier this week:
First of all as from today I'll be making my reports twice weekly,
Saturdays and Wednesdays. Second, I have been postponing the time
to make some important decisions for as long as I could but, no
more, I do not want to leave chaos behind.
I do agree that if my health was to suddenly deteriorate drastically,
i.e. I could no longer walk or any of the organs were to fail,
I am to be hospitalised and put on a drip if necessary, however,
no solids. In case of coma, it is my wish to be taken of the life
support if I am not resuscitated within two weeks.
To ease the heavy burden that I've placed on my dear friend Steve,
there are few other people keeping in contact over the phone.
Steve has got my full authorisation to deal with anything on my
behalf in case that I am incapacitated, including my bank accounts
and property and as I've seen the shrink today and he did not
have me committed, my marbles must be still all there so I am
able to make this decision of my free will and of sound mind,
as they say. For all of you out there who offered your support
and worked hard, don't let it be wasted, now is the time to push
even harder, soon you might be dealing not just with child abusers
but murderers as well. And they must not be let off, IT IS FOR
OUR CHILDREN AND OUR CHILDREN'S CHILDREN AND ALL THE ABUSED PARENTS.
And don't ever forget it.
Well, here it is, I've probably managed to bore you to death,
few who stayed awake anyway so I'll finish.
Last, but most important to me, tell my boys how much I loved
them and missed them.
All the best.
LM
